4.86/5 from 7,000+ clients

I'm Blaine,
& I'm your matchmaker

Ready to find

your dream girl?

If you're not meeting women you're excited about...

Or, you're tired of the inconvenience and lack of privacy on apps like Hinge and Raya...

Stop wasting time, and let us set you up!

My team and I would love to introduce you to the woman of your dreams 🥰

Here's a tiny sample of photos from happy Dating By Blaine clients with their new girlfriends.

    How Matchmaking WOrks

    Our matchmaking process is simple.

    1. You tell us who you're seeking...
    2. We find her, and introduce you for a date!

    Our matchmaking packages typically include 10x hand-picked matches over 6 months.

    Unlike other matchmakers, we're not sourcing dates from a stale, picked-over database of women 🙄

    We source each date for you personally, by hand.

    We have enormous personal networks of high-quality single women 25-40 years old.

    What guys are saying about Blaine

    Meet Bradley M

    Shortly after I finished your course, I started dating my wonderful girlfriend Barrie, and we've now been together about a year. I'm thrilled to be one of your (many) success stories.

    Meet FRANCIS R

    I continue to appreciate your help to make it possible for me to meet people like her!

    Meet Jack!

    Whether you are totally introverted and shy, or you can get dates, but you’re getting friend-zoned, the solutions are there. Blaine's program is for anyone who just wants to level up, and tweak a few areas...

    Meet KHIZER K

    Blaine teaches you to be yourself, and position yourself, in a way that you can attract and sustain a relationship with women you thought were out of your league. Thank you for everything, Blaine!

    Meet KV!

    It was purely based on your advice that my dating life has improved. My favorite part was the Thirsting and Thriving examples. It showed me exactly what and where I was going wrong.

    Meet MARK S

    I am getting a constant stream of high quality connections on Hinge and have already been on 5 dates in the last 2.5 weeks. I am following your system closely and it's working well. Plus, I met someone IRL at a pub. Thanks again. A+ course.

    Meet Matt G

    I got engaged to the woman of my dreams! Thank you so much for the help, it was a big investment that I’m thankful I took, it helped me so much and led me to where I am today.

    Meet ZACH K

    You have seriously changed my life. I started dating my dream girl 2 weeks ago, and we made our relationship official today!

    Meet ZACHARY K

    I had given up on dating. Then I met Blaine… You BET this works!

    How We Find Women

    We're the best in the world at finding amazing women our clients are excited to meet!

    Beyond our personal networks, and physically pounding the pavement in cities to meet women where our clients are searching (e.g. attending pilates classes...)

    We can connect with almost every amazing woman on the planet via Instagram!

    One perk of being "Instagram famous" is that attractive single women actually respond to my DMs 😎

    This includes women who would probably ignore other matchmakers (e.g. this NYC-based Vogue cover model we introduced to our client Matt...)

    We can't guarantee you dates with Vogue cover models.

    The types of women who will be interested in you will depend on what you bring to the table!

    The point is simply that we can introduce you to high-quality women you probably couldn't meet elsewhere :)

    the right fit

    does this sound like you?

    Dating By Blaine matchmaking clients are different from our coaching clients...
    You know what you want

    Your #1 dating challenge is finding the right person.

    You feel confident on dates

    For example, you don't typically have problems getting second dates!

    You're successful professionally

    You can comfortably invest ≥$25,000 to outsource the labor of finding your person!

    Meet these criteria, and want to be set up on dates?
    Get started

    Let's find your person

    Matchmaking spots are limited, and we don't have the capacity (or desire) to work with everyone. Apply below and let's discover if we're a fit.

    Not quite ready for matchmaking, but still want to meet quality women?

    Start with one of my coaching programs instead. Once you're more confident with women, we can discuss matchmaking!

    a few final details

    Before we ride off...

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    📍 We have the strongest networks in major U.S. cities!

    We're most successful making introductions in cities like New York City, Los Angeles, San Francisco, San Diego, Miami, Austin, Dallas, Houston, and Nashville.

    We've also successfully matched for clients outside these cities (including cities outside the U.S. like London and Mexico City!)

    ... but if you're based somewhere remote, and you can't travel for dates, you may be better off hiring a local matchmaker.

    ✈️ Many of our clients are open to dating in multiple U.S. cities!

    Dating in multiple cities definitely isn't a requirement, but if your lifestyle enables you to travel for dates, location flexibility can expand and elevate your options.

    This is helpful if you have a challenging search, because

    • The type of woman you're looking for is hard to find, or...
    • Historically she hasn't always been interested in you romantically!

    We usually recommend dating in at least one city mentioned earlier (i.e. NYC, LA, SF, San Diego, Miami, Austin, Houston, Dallas, Nashville...) for best results.

    🙄 If you have unrealistic criteria, we can't help you.

    For example, even if you're pushing 50, we can probably find 28-year-old women who will be excited to meet you!

    Adding additional criteria (e.g. "28, blonde, Harvard graduate, expert skier...") can make your pool of potential matches vanishingly slim, however, and we don't want to waste your time or money.

    MATCHMAKING

    Dude, You've reached the BOTTOM OF THE PAGE.

    If you read this far, you'll love working with us. Apply already 😉

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    4.86/5 (from 7,000+ clients)