I'm Blaine, your
Professional Matchmaker

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What Does A Professional Matchmaker Do?

A professional matchmaker (like me!) helps successful men (like you!) meet amazing women, without the hassle and b.s. associated with modern dating.

My team and I hustle behind the scenes for clients to find high-quality potential matches, vet them carefully, and make introductions that lead to great dates.

Our clients don't typically have problems landing dates. They hire us because:

  • They seldom meet women they feel truly excited about in their day-to-day lives...
  • Dating apps like Hinge feel frustrating, time-consuming, or too public...
  • They want an intentional and streamlined way to find their person ♥️

No more doomscrolling through profiles on Raya. No more kicking yourself for not approaching the cutie you saw in the produce section at Whole Foods.

We handle the search, vetting, and logistics of dating so you can focus on what matters: meeting amazing women, and having fun on dates!

Read on to learn more about our matchmaking service, or apply below to see if working together makes sense.

Here's a tiny sample of photos from happy Dating By Blaine clients with their new girlfriends.
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How Our Matchmaking process works

Hiring a professional matchmaker should feel straightforward, and exciting. Here's how our matchmaking process works, from start to finish:

First, we'll get to know each other.

We'll start with a conversation to understand your background, values, and the type of woman you want to meet.

If I don't feel confident that I can deliver matches you'll be excited about, I'll tell you!

Second, we'll decide to work together.

Most of my matchmaking engagements are structured as 6-month searches. During that timeframe, I'll guarantee at least 10x hand-picked introductions to women who meet your criteria, and have already opted into meeting you.

Each introduction is carefully curated. We're not randomly sending you matches from an app or database!

Third, we'll get you ready for dates.

My matchmaking packages usually also include professional styling and photos, because you won't land the best matches if you don't look your best.

We may even clean up your presence online (e.g. Google Search & Instagram) before kicking off your search.

Fourth, we'll find amazing matches for you.

Unlike other matchmakers, we're not sourcing dates from a stale, picked-over database of women who may also be paying for matchmaking!

We find each match for you personally, by hand. You can learn more about our search motion below.

My team screens and speaks with each potential match before proposing an introduction. Each introduction we propose may represent dozens of conversations we've had with different women on your behalf.

Fifth, you enjoy great dates.

By the time we share a match with you, the woman will have already learned about your background, and opted into meeting you for dinner or drinks.

Assuming you're also excited to meet her, we’ll help with the logistics of planning a date. Or goal is to enable you to just show up, and have fun meeting someone new!

What guys are saying about Blaine

Meet Bradley M

Shortly after I finished your course, I started dating my wonderful girlfriend Barrie, and we've now been together about a year. I'm thrilled to be one of your (many) success stories.

Meet FRANCIS R

I continue to appreciate your help to make it possible for me to meet people like her!

Meet Jack!

Whether you are totally introverted and shy, or you can get dates, but you’re getting friend-zoned, the solutions are there. Blaine's program is for anyone who just wants to level up, and tweak a few areas...

Meet KHIZER K

Blaine teaches you to be yourself, and position yourself, in a way that you can attract and sustain a relationship with women you thought were out of your league. Thank you for everything, Blaine!

Meet KV!

It was purely based on your advice that my dating life has improved. My favorite part was the Thirsting and Thriving examples. It showed me exactly what and where I was going wrong.

Meet MARK S

I am getting a constant stream of high quality connections on Hinge and have already been on 5 dates in the last 2.5 weeks. I am following your system closely and it's working well. Plus, I met someone IRL at a pub. Thanks again. A+ course.

Meet Matt G

I got engaged to the woman of my dreams! Thank you so much for the help, it was a big investment that I’m thankful I took, it helped me so much and led me to where I am today.

Meet ZACH K

You have seriously changed my life. I started dating my dream girl 2 weeks ago, and we made our relationship official today!

Meet ZACHARY K

I had given up on dating. Then I met Blaine… You BET this works!

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How We FIND MATCHES FOR Our CLIENTS

We're the best in the world at finding amazing women who our clients are actually excited to meet through:

  1. Our personal networks. The matchmakers on my team have lived in every major city in the United States, and we know tons of attractive single women.
  2. Out and about. We'll find matches for our clients at pilates classes, matcha bars, and everywhere else women our clients like spend time.
  3. On social media. We can connect with almost every amazing woman on the planet via Instagram and LinkedIn. On that note...

One perk of being "Instagram famous" is that attractive women respond to my DMs 😎

This includes women who would likely ignore other matchmakers (e.g. the Vogue cover model we introduced to our client Matt, from the screenshot above...)

I can't guarantee you dates with Vogue cover models!

The types of women who will be interested in meeting you will depend on what you bring to the table.

The point is simply that we can introduce you to high-quality women you probably couldn't meet elsewhere.

the right fit

does this sound like you?

Dating By Blaine matchmaking clients are different from our coaching clients!
You know what you want

Your #1 dating challenge is finding the right person.

You feel confident on dates

For example, you don't have problems landing second dates.

You're successful professionally

You can comfortably invest five figures toward finding your person.

Meet these criteria, and want us to find the woman of your dreams?
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Speaking of investment...

How Much Does Matchmaking Cost?

Unlike most professional matchmakers, I don't hide my prices. My matchmaking service starts at $25,000.

The actual investment amount depends on the complexity of your search, which boils down to:

  1. Who are you looking to meet, and how hard will it be for us to find her?
  2. Once we've found her, how likely will she be to want to meet you?

Matchmaking spots are limited, and we can't work with everyone. If ≥$25,000 is in-budget, apply below, and let's get to know each other!

Have questions?

Frequently Asked Questions

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Do you work with matchmaking clients in my city?

We work with clients across the globe, if 95% of our clients are based in the U.S.

Our personal networks are strongest in major U.S. cities, and we feel most confident matching for clients in:

  • New York City
  • Washington D.C.
  • Boston
  • Miami & Palm Beach
  • San Francisco
  • Los Angeles
  • San Diego
  • Chicago
  • Dallas
  • Austin
  • Houston
  • Nashville

We've also successfully matched for clients in smaller U.S. cities, and in cities outside the U.S. like London, Lisbon, Paris, and Mexico City.

We're open to working with clients anywhere, but especially if you're based somewhere remote and you can't travel for dates, you may be better off hiring a local matchmaker.

I'm open to dating in multiple cities, is that OK?

Yes, we often work with clients who date in >1 city.

Certain matchmaking searches may require you to take introductions in >1 city (e.g. if you're looking for someone super specific, and you live somewhere remote!)

What's critical is that you're willing to either:

  1. Travel for dates, or...
  2. Take first dates via Facetime

We can discuss search geography 1x1 based on your needs.

I have VERY specific criteria for matches, can you help?

Maybe! We're always open to exploring complex matchmaking searches. We'll also be the first to tell you if we don't feel confident we can find who you're looking for.

For example, if you're 50 and you're seeking to find a younger woman to start a family with, we can often help.

Additional criteria (e.g. "28, blonde, Harvard graduate, expert skier...") can make your pool of potential matches vanishingly slim, however, and we don't want to waste your time or money.

Each client's search is unique, so get in touch, and we can discuss your specific goals and requirements.

MATCHMAKING

You've Reached The End, Bro.

You'll love working with us if you read this far. Get in touch!

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