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The Dating By Blaine Story
About Dating By Blaine
How it all started
Dating By Blaine almost started when I was an undergrad at the University of Arizona.
My guy friends would ask me for dating advice about my sorority sisters. Unsurprising, they're hot!
The BEST guys had the WORST luck with girls, and it confused me 🤔
I became obsessed with figuring out why.
Do women hate nice guys? Or is there another problem?
Recognize me in the photo above? ☝
What I've learned
Through working with 7,000+ clients, I've discovered:
Dating for men is a MARKETING problem.
If you can't communicate crisply, create chemistry, and put your best foot forward FAST, women don't give you the chance you deserve.
Great guys often SUCK at marketing themselves.
Marketing yourself isn't something you learn in school, which may explain why so many smart, thoughtful, hard-working men are so bad at it.
You can find an amazing partner FAST.
If you have the humility to ask for help, chances are that we can help you, and I'm excited to connect!
meet the dbb team
We Are at your service!
Blaine anderson
Founder & CEO
I'm a matchmaker, dating coach, and proud teammate to these wonderful women!
Tara bratt
Matchmaker & Dating Coach
Tara is a dating coach and matchmaker based in San Francisco, CA.
Kahlah Macedo
VP Operations & Dating Coach
Kahlah makes the trains run on time at Dating By Blaine. She's based in Newport Beach, CA.
ash Chubin
Matchmaker
Ash is a matchmaker and beam of uplifting energy based in Denver, CO.
Sydney Villa
Matchmaker
Sydney is a matchmaker and former professional dancer based in Austin, TX.
Merav Walklet
Matchmaker
Merav is a close friend and matchmaker based in Los Angeles, CA.
Ulku Guneysu
Personal Stylist
Ulku is our in-house personal stylist, and splits time between NYC & Austin, TX.