Our Story

About Dating By Blaine

How it all started

Dating By Blaine's roots trace back to when I was an undergraduate at the University of Arizona.

My guy friends would ask me for dating advice about my sorority sisters!

The best guys had the worst luck with girls, and this confused me.

‍I became obsessed with figuring out why. Do women hate nice guys? Or is there another problem?

Recognize me in the photo above? ☝

What I've learned

After working with 7,000+ men since, I've discovered:

For many men, dating is a marketing problem.

If you can't know how to create chemistry, and put your best foot forward fast, women may not give you the chance you deserve.

Men often suck at marketing themselves.

Marketing yourself isn't something you learn in school, which may explain why so many smart, successful guys are so bad at it.

You can level up, and find the right woman fast.

As long as you have the humility to ask for help, we can probably get your dating life unstuck, and I'm excited to connect.

You're not alone...

Meet The Dating By Blaine Team

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Blaine anderson

Founder & CEO

I'm a matchmaker, coach, and proud teammate to these wonderful women!

Tara bratt

Matchmaker & Dating Coach

Tara is a dating coach and matchmaker based in San Francisco, CA.

Kahlah Macedo

Matchmaker & Dating Coach

Kahlah is a dating coach and matchmaker based in Newport Beach, CA.

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ash Chubin

Matchmaker

Ash is a matchmaker and beam of uplifting energy based in Denver, CO.

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Sydney Villa

Matchmaker

Sydney is a matchmaker and former professional dancer based in Austin, TX.

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Merav Walklet

Matchmaker

Merav is a close friend and matchmaker based in Los Angeles, CA.

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Brianna Whitney

Matchmaker & Operations Manager

Brianna is a matchmaker & operations manager based in New York City.