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About
The Dating by Blaine Story
Where it all started
Dating By Blaine technically started when I was an undergrad at the University of Arizona.
My guy friends would ask me for dating advice about my sorority sisters. (Unsurprising — they're hot!)
The BEST guys had the WORST luck with girls, and it confused me 🤔
I became obsessed with figuring out why.
Do women hate nice guys? Or is there another problem?
Recognize me in the photo above? ☝
What I've learned
Through working with 7,000+ clients, I've discovered:
Dating for men is a MARKETING problem.
If you can't communicate crisply, create chemistry, and put your authentic best foot forward FAST, women don't give you the chance you deserve.
Great guys often SUCK at marketing themselves.
Marketing yourself isn't something you learn in school, which may explain why so many smart, thoughtful, hard-working men are so bad at it!
You can LEARN to attract awesome women fast.
If you believe in yourself, and have the humility to believe there are things you can learn, you will see big changes with a little effort and the right plan.
Who we help
I've helped 7,000+ clients from every background you can imagine attract girlfriends they're excited about!
many of my clients:
Work in finance, technology, or another analytical field
and want their dating lives to catch up with their personal and professional lives.
Recently exited long-term relationships and weren't expecting to be single again, and don't want to waste time bouncing back.
Are less inexperienced with women and dating generally, though equally many have extensive dating experience!
Are meeting women but not attracting the “9s” and “10s” they know they deserve, and want to build lives with.
Are short, tall, white collar, blue collar, white, black, Asian, Indian, shy, outgoing, handsome, "unphotogenic," fit, heavy... You name it!
If you're motivated to learn, and you're not an asshole, there's a 100% chance we can help!
In fact, there’s a whole team behind you...
In fact, there’s a whole team behind you...
meet the dbb team
We're at your service!
Blaine anderson
Founder & CEO
I'm a matchmaker, dating coach, and proud teammate to all of these wonderful women. I'm based in Austin, TX!
Tara bratt
Matchmaker & Dating Coach
Tara my oldest friend, and a dating coach and matchmaker based in San Francisco, CA.
Kahlah Macedo
VP Operations & Dating Coach
Kahlah makes the trains run on time, and trains guys to flirt! She's based in Newport Beach, CA.
ash Chubin
Matchmaker
Ash is a matchmaker and beam of the most wonderfully positive energy based in Denver, CO.
Ulku Guneysu
Personal Stylist
Ulku is our in-house personal stylist, and splits time between NYC & Austin, TX.