MEET Blaine

Hey, I'm Blaine!
It's great to meet you

I started Dating By Blaine to help men have more fun and options dating en route to landing their dream partners!

my mission

My work is important to me because single men are increasingly lonely and isolated 💔

According to a survey of more than 2,000 American men ages 18 to 40 I commissioned in 2023:
30%
single men say there's no one they can talk to when they feel lonely, anxious, or depressed
40%
of single men say they feel lonely often or almost all the time
50%
of single men say they’re afraid to approach women because they fear being perceived as creepy
My mission is to stem this trend, and help guys find the relationships they deserve.
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testimonials

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my approach

Smiling woman sitting cross-legged on a couch with pillows, using a laptop, with a plant and staircase in the background.

I take a systems-approach to dating, and my coaching draws on a wide variety of sources:

🤓 Some academic
Think Adlerian psychology, evolutionary biology, descriptive and inferential statistics.
🤠 Some not
My experiences dating across 6 continents and serving 7,000+ clients.
Photo of Blaine in black pants and a black tanktop sitting, smiling

My programs are organized around my "5Es" of dating.

1️⃣ Empathize
Understanding what women want, and how to show you've got it
2️⃣ Embrace
building confidence in + showcasing the things that make you sexy
3️⃣ Embody
putting your best forward to meet women online and in-person
4️⃣ Engage
leading flirty, inspiring conversations that create romantic chemistry
5️⃣ Execute
orchestrating great dates and building relationships on your terms
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fun facts about me

🤘 I'm a Texan by way of California. My husband and I moved to Austin from San Francisco in 2020.

😻 My dog Dee Dee and my one-eyed cat Cedar are the lights of my life. That's Dee Dee in the photo below!

💪 I love physical activities like surfing, paddle boarding, yoga, pilates, hiking, and Barry's Bootcamp.

🛫 Before Dating By Blaine, I worked in the travel industry, and was a digital nomad from 2016 to 2018.

🐙🌵 I'm obsessed with octopuses (no, I don't eat them!) and saguaro cacti (I grew up in Tucson, Arizona!)

🏅 I've been recognized as a Dating Coach by Coach Foundation, one of the biggest names in the coaching industry.

❤️ Nothing brings me more joy than making my clients successful, and I'd love to work with you!

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our current programs

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self-study course
The Texting
Operating System

Never send the wrong message or feel stressed and anxious about texting again.


self-study course
The Online Dating
Operating System

Build a top 1% profile and land girlfriend-quality matches on apps like Hinge, fast.

self-study course
Approach
Academy

Learn the right way to approach women (even if you're shy) to land more numbers and more dates.

group program
Blaine's Dating
Masterclass

Transform your dating life with an intelligent & comprehensive approach to women and dating.


1-on-1 support
Jumpstart your
‍Dating life

Jumpstart is my 1x1 coaching program. We'll work together closely to get YOUR dating life unstuck.