Let's get your dating life unstuck

My 1x1 Jumpstart program is for guys who are ready to stop doubting themselves with girls, feel sexually attractive, and date the women they’re excited about on their own terms.

Because it’s fully personalized to you, Jumpstart can be a fit whether you are:

🐣 Relatively inexperienced with women and dating

😤 Dating regularly but not attracting the “9s” and “10s” you know you deserve

Many of my Jumpstart clients fall into one of two categories:‍

1. The engineer, who may or may not be an actual engineer.‍

This is you if you're smart and analytical, you have a solid career and fulfilling personal life, and you're ready for dating to catch up and become fun and easy!

2. The divorcé.‍

This is you if you weren't expecting to be single again, and could use a refresher on dating generally (and dating in the digital age specifically) now that you're back on the market.

I've worked with guys from almost every background you can think of, though!

My clients are short, tall, white, black, Asian, Indian, American, European, rich, blue collar, outgoing, shy, handsome, "ugly", athletic, disabled, thin, overweight, fit, you name it 😃🌐

One callout...

Jumpstart is designed for guys who can comfortably make a four-figure financial investment in themselves.

If you're not there yet, no sweat.

Check out my Masterclass, Texting Operating System, Online Dating Operating System or Approach Academy programs instead.

Great question! I typically cannot help:

1. Guys who believe they are BEYOND help.‍

If you’ve convinced yourself that women and dating are a lost cause, I probably won't be able to change your mind.

Dating is heavily psychological, and BELIEVING IN YOURSELF is critical for success. That sounds corny, but it's true!

That's not to imply you need to be bursting with self-confidence coming in (my job is to help you develop that!) but if you're starting from a place of TOTAL self-doubt, therapy may be more effective than coaching.

2. Guys seeking a MAGIC PILL.

If you expect to spend an hour with us on Zoom, and then suddenly become a playboy who has his choice of gorgeous models to fool around with...

Jumpstart is not for you!

The program delivers a proven recipe for success that has been tested by thousands of guys, but YOU have to take action and bake the cookies.

We can meaningfully change your trajectory with women (e.g. take you from a "6" to an "8") FAST, but this isn't a magic pill, and you should be wary of anyone trying to sell you one!

3. ARROGANT guys who DROWN in the theory.‍

Many of my students are highly analytical, and highly analytical guys get great results because you'll get a coherent, organized, systems approach to women and dating — plus 1x1 help to process everything!

Over-thinkers also get good results, because we'll help you simplify decisions, and bust out of your analysis paralysis.

However, occasionally guys will sign up for coaching who are SO preoccupied with theory and edge cases (and SO convinced that they know everything already...) they never implement the simple, practical, and relatively universal advice we share 🙄

If this sounds like you (e.g. you would rather argue about whether I'm right than learn a new skill...) you will probably get poor results compared to the guys who prioritize listening and take action!

4. Guys with IRRATIONAL expectations.

Our 1x1 clients expect and obtain amazing results, and I would NEVER want a client to settle, but if you expect to date fitness models and you're 50 lbs overweight...

Or, if you're 40+ years old and you refuse to entertain the idea of dating a woman in her early 30s because she's "too old" for you...

We probably can't help you!

A boxing analogy may be appropriate here. We can help you dominate your dating weight class, and even compete 1-2 classes above, but NATURE is beyond our control.

You can't expect to start knocking out heavyweights in a month if you're starting as a flyweight.

5. Guys with hardcore VICTIM mentality.

If you view life as something that happens TO you, and you seldom feel agency over the direction you're headed in...

I'm sorry, but we can't help you either.‍

If you're any of these 5x guys, I truly wish you the best, but please don't apply for Jumpstart ❤️

One more note...

If you can't comfortably make a four-figure investment in yourself, Jumpstart isn't for you.

Check out my Masterclass, Texting Operating System, or Online Dating Operating System instead.

Great question!

Before you sign up, you'll have a brief 1x1 Zoom consultation with a coach on my team.‍

We offer this consultation because Jumpstart is a meaningful investment, and it’s important that:

1. You get a chance to meet US and feel confident that we'll help you achieve your dating and personal goals 🤝

2. We get a chance to meet YOU and feel confident you'll get good ROI on your investment in a dating coach 📈

If we mutually feel like working together is a fit, you’ll sign up, and receive immediate access to my recorded Masterclass curriculum.

We encourage you to dive into the Masterclass immediately, because the content will lay a foundation (and give us a shared vocabulary to use in your 1x1 sessions) for everything we'll work on together.

You'll schedule your first 1x1 Zoom coaching session shortly after signing up.‍

During your first session, we'll get to know you more deeply, help you set initial goals for the program, and start working through your most urgent challenges.

From there, we'll TYPICALLY schedule your next three live 1x1 sessions at four-week intervals, because we've found this cadence is most effective for the busy guys who choose to work with us 1x1.

You can use your remaining two 1x1 Zoom coaching sessions anytime in the 12 months following your signup as need arises.

You can also use any of your six 1x1 sessions with our team of in-house experts including NYC-based personal stylist Ulku, our mock date expert Kahlah, or our licensed therapist partner Nikki Evans.

You can start receiving coaching via email right away!‍

Email coaching is perfect for chatting through day-to-day challenges in your dating life, like how to respond to tricky messages, which photos to use for your Instagram or dating profiles, and anything else you want to talk about.

Most clients are initially drawn to the 1x1 Zoom sessions, but find the email coaching drives even more of the value of their Jumpstart investment!

We'll structure our work together as YOU see fit.‍

Some of our clients prefer an open-ended program, and use their coach mostly as needs arise ad hoc.

Other clients prefer to focus on a couple of specific areas, and use the 1x1 help for targeted feedback, accountability, and encouragement against their goals.

Occasionally, clients want us to take the wheel, and set structure for them.

We can accommodate any of these style, so which we pursue is 100% up to you!

Yes, but if you're asking, please read on 😉

Jumpstart Your Dating Life includes three types of 1x1 coaching:

1. Live Zoom coaching.‍

We'll have six live 1x1 Zoom coaching sessions to set goals, discuss challenges and opportunities in-depth, and deepen your learnings. These sessions are 50 minutes in length.

2. Ongoing async coaching.‍

You get "unlimited" 1x1 email access to your coach, officially over 12 weeks. Email coaching is helpful because it means we don't have to experience the hassle of scheduling a call every time you need a question answered!

3. Full 1x1 dating app profile makeover.‍

We'll typically do this iteratively together via email, so we can methodically look at all of the pieces of your profile, and weave them together into the perfect, cohesive package.

NOTES ON THE LIVE ZOOM COACHING:

We deliberately include 6x live sessions with Jumpstart, and recommend we meet at the following cadence:

• Session 1: ASAP after signup
• Session 2: at the 4-week mark
• Session 3: at the 8-week mark
• Session 4: at the 12-week mark
• Sessions 5 & 6: as needed over the 12 months following your signup

This is because through years of coaching, we've observed that clients get steeply diminishing returns to more than one live 1x1 coaching session a month.

I've heard of other coaches offering a live coaching call every week...

The type of men we work with are f***ing busy successful professionals, and typically don't WANT to spend an extra hour on Zoom every week!

However, it's hard to make progress toward a specific goal with LESS than one live 1x1 coaching session a month.

Basically, you'll use your Zoom sessions to punctuate chapters in your personal development, not catch up on day-to-day developments in your dating life. We have email for that!

NOTES ON THE EMAIL COACHING:

This is “unlimited” with the caveats that:

1. We're not on our phones 24/7.‍

Your coach will always respond to emails promptly, and we virtually ALWAYS respond to emails within 48 hours, unless there’s an important reason we can’t (e.g. travel, no service, holiday, etc).

We don’t offer a more specific service-level agreement because like many of our clients, we're also busy and successful professionals, and life happens!

Still, if you label a message as "URGENT," you have our word that we'll bust our asses to get back to you ASAP.

2. We can’t read novel-length messages.‍

After working with 7,000+ guys, we've learned that sharing 100+ words of context for a single dating question is seldom beneficial.

In fact, the same impulse that drives men to send long-ass emails tends to be at the heart of their dating woes 🤯

Being blunt, learning to (1) stop sweating every detail, (2) accept that your situation isn’t always unique, and (3) communicate crisply will become an asset in EVERY aspect of your life, not just dating!

This isn’t to say you CAN'T send us 100+ word emails!‍

It’s just to say that you will reap ENORMOUS benefits from learning to trim the fat, both when talking to women, and with everyone else you communicate with.

And yeah, I’m aware of the irony that this FAQ response is already ~400 words long 😜

I exclusively offered live 1x1 coaching when I started Dating By Blaine.

As demand for my services grew, I gravitated away from 1x1 coaching toward courses, which enabled me to reach and serve more clients (aka grow my business 😉).

This shift toward courses made sense for me professionally, but it meant that I lost the close, personal relationships many clients valued 😕

It also meant that I was turning away prospective clients who wanted a fully personalized experience.

I created Jumpstart Your Dating Life to work 1x1 with guys like you!

My Jumpstart clients tend to be amazing men (e.g. entrepreneurs, CEOs, lawyers, and doctors) and if you actually bothered to read all this + Jumpstart sounds interesting to you, we can't wait to work with you!

My most important credentials are my clients' results.

→ I've helped 7,000+ men learn to attract women they're excited about.‍

→ More than 95% report they'd recommend working with me to a friend.

In addition to the testimonials scattered throughout this page, you can check out 100+ client stories on my Reviews page 📔

In case it's also helpful to hear:

→ Millions of guys tune in for my free advice across my Instagram, my TikTok, and my YouTube every month.

→ My tips have been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, New York Post, Forbes, CNN, CNBC, Today, and other leading publications.

→ Mark Cuban decided to invest in my business after I appeared on season 15 episode 3 of ABC's Shark Tank, and I'm excited to share more about partnering with Mark soon 🦈

The total cost of Jumpstart is your choice of either:

→ One lump payment of $3,985 USD

→ Three monthly payments of $1,485 USD

To contextualize the price...

Jumpstart is like a Tesla Model S or X!

It’s not a Lamborghini or a Ferrari, where you’re blowing a massive wad of cash on something exotic.

It's not an entry-level option, either, though.

It's a premium experience, priced commensurate to value, specifically for successful guys who can comfortably invest in themselves now that they want to focus on personal development and dating.

I've invested 10,000+ hours into developing and testing the materials we'll cover (Jumpstart includes every resource I’ve ever created, as well as every learning I've picked up through helping 7,000+ guys over the years!) plus it includes exclusive 1x1 access to a highly skilled coach for several months.

We're REALLY f***ing good at helping men learn to attract attractive women, and we put a TON of time into every one of our clients.

If you decide to give Jumpstart a chance, you’ll see why we're worth it 🤠

BTW if Jumpstart isn't in your budget, no sweat!‍

Check out my Masterclass, my Texting OS, my Online Dating OS, and my free resources.

Jumpstart definitely isn't the most expensive coaching option out there (I've seen other coaches charge $15,000+ 😳) but it's probably not the cheapest, either.

Price is just one of many variables to consider when making an investment (e.g. ever tried to save a buck, bought the less-expensive of two comparable products, realized you made a mistake, then wound up ALSO purchasing the more-expensive alternative?) but price is absolutely an important variable for most guys.‍

One more note: the total cost with the monthly payments is higher than with the lump payment.‍

This is because we pay more in transaction fees with the monthly payments, and there's extra work + risk for us if your payments bounce.

I just wanted to make this crystal clear before you make a decision!

Excellent question!

I currently offer five programs, my (1) Texting OS, (2) Online Dating OS, (3) Approach Academy, (4) Dating Masterclass, and (4) Jumpstart.‍

1. My Texting OS is a ~2 hour self-serve course on texting.

‍You'll learn to send the right message, every time, so you feel confident texting women. If you specifically need help with messaging on dating apps and texting, it's the perfect option. It costs $149 USD, and it's included with Jumpstart!

2. My Online Dating OS is a ~3 hour self-serve course on online dating.‍

You'll learn to build a top 1% dating profile so you start getting better matches on apps like Hinge, fast. It's also $149 USD, and it's also included with Jumpstart!‍

3. Approach Academy is a ~2 hour self-serve course on online dating.‍

You'll learn to approach women IRL the right way, so you land numbers and dates, without being awkward or creepy. It's $149 USD, and it's also included with Jumpstart!‍

4. My Dating Masterclass is an interactive program that covers EVERY aspect of dating for men.‍

My Masterclass encompasses an 8-hour video curriculum (which is of course included with Jumpstart) and also includes five weekly live group coaching sessions, lifetime access to my student & alumni Discord community, a 1x1 profile makeover, my self-study courses, and more. The total cost is $995 USD.

5. My Jumpstart Program is a personalized 1x1 coaching experience.

Jumpstart includes everything you read about my other programs, plus 1x1 coaching, both via email and Zoom. Jumpstart is $3,985 USD.

So it's clear, my Masterclass and Jumpstart cover the same material!

To oversimplify things, Jumpstart is a little like "Masterclass + 1x1 coaching" and you can expect great results with either program. The difference is just the level of depth and personalization.

👉 Want a streamlined, lower-cost, DIY experience?‍

My Masterclass is your best option.

👉 Want a deeper, personalized, 1x1 experience?‍

Jumpstart is your best option.

👉 On the fence between my Masterclass and Jumpstart?‍

This may be the "wrong" thing to say from a business perspective (Jumpstart drives more revenue 😇) but honestly, consider starting with my Masterclass.

You may find everything you need there, and you can always upgrade to Jumpstart later. You will of course get full credit for your Masterclass investment toward the price of Jumpstart if you decide to upgrade. Just email me, and we’ll get it sorted out ❤️

Great question!

Expect to spend 3 hours / week over 12 weeks maximize your results.

You don’t have to make time every day, but it's helpful to be able to commit time each week.‍

→ Have TRAVEL planned over the next few months?

That's A-OK! Travel won’t diminish your experience, or interfere with your ability to get results. If anything, it may give you new opportunities to practice your learnings 😏

→ Going through an INSANELY busy time at work?

If there will be consecutive weeks where you can’t give the program ANY attention, wait until you have more time to invest in working with us.

Put more simply...

→ Have time to date today?‍

If you’re actively going on dates, swiping on apps, or just spending hours a week thinking about girls, you have enough time for Jumpstart!‍

→ DON'T have time to date?‍

If you're so busy with professional or personal commitments that you're struggling to schedule dates, honestly, you'd be better off waiting to sign up.

Two last notes here...

The email coaching OFFICIALLY lasts 12 weeks.‍

We generally don't mind answering crisp, thoughtful questions after the 12 week mark as long as you're respectful of our time!

If you're sending us daily long-ass rambling emails, though, we're cutting you off on day 84 😂

You get LIFETIME access to program materials.‍

This includes my Texting OS, Online Dating OS, Approach Academy, Masterclass, our 1x1 Zoom session recordings, and bonus materials, so you can always review these after your program ends.

How soon you will enjoy results (i.e. start attracting awesome women!) depends on a few things:

1. The SCOPE of what you want to accomplish.‍

→ Struggling with texting?

You will see results literally the instant you watch my Texting OS, which is included with Jumpstart.

→ Struggling with self-esteem?

It may take weeks of focused effort to observe real improvements.

Most guys considering Jumpstart have deeper challenges to overcome than just "I get ghosted on Hinge," so while you can expect plenty of immediate aha! moments quickly...

It may take WEEKS or even MONTHS, not HOURS or DAYS, to see deep changes in your dating life.

The good news is that >90% of my clients report seeing meaningful and tangible results within 30 days!

It just may take longer to see EVERY result you're looking for.

2. How hard you WORK.‍

Coaching isn’t magic, and dating isn’t particularly unique versus any other skill you could learn.

The more effort you invest, the better the results you’ll get. As the saying goes, you can’t cheat the grind!

Still, the same way you'll get pretty damn good at tennis by playing for an hour a day with a pro's instructions for a month...

You will get pretty damn good at dating by devoting an hour a day to the program!

3. How well you follow DIRECTIONS.‍

Having worked with 7,000+ guys, I’ve observed that (A) some guys are better than others at following instructions, and (B) guys' ability to follow instructions is directly proportional to their results from my programs.

If you're GOOD at following instructions (e.g. school wasn’t hard when you applied yourself), expect BIG results from Jumpstart, FAST.

If you're BAD at following instructions (e.g. no matter how hard you tried in school, you struggled...) candidly you may NOT see results from Jumpstart, and I wouldn't want you to make the wrong investment.

🧠 On this note, I've had success helping neurodiverse clients (as well as clients with learning disabilities!) but if this sounds like you, let's chat about it BEFORE you sign up.

Yes, but let's make sure Jumpstart is the right fit for you first.

First, apply for Jumpstart by tapping any of the "Apply now" links on this page.‍

If you're interested in Jumpstart and the program is comfortably in-budget, your next step will be to connect 1x1 with a coach for a Zoom consultation to make sure Jumpstart is the right fit.

Then, if it feels like working together is a fit, and you’d like to speak with a past client before making your decision, we'd be glad to put you in touch with one 🤝

Email me at blaine@datingbyblaine.com!