1. we get to know each other
Our first step is understanding your background and dating life. How'd you get here? What makes you feel excited? Who do you tend to be attracted to? What does the right relationship look like? What have you tried, and where have things broken down?
If I'm not confident we can find who you're looking for, we shouldn't work together, and I'll tell you that. We've had enormous success matching for clients in SF, but matchmaking is a big investment, and I only work with clients I'm confident I can make happy.
2. We decide to work together
Our matchmaking engagements are typically structured as 6-month searches. During that timeframe, we'll propose at least 10 hand-picked introductions to women who match your search criteria, and who have already expressed excitement about meeting you.
We can focus your search exclusively on San Francisco, or we can look in other cities like New York or Los Angeles if you're open to travel, and you want to cast a wider net. Either way, every introduction we make is carefully curated just for you!
3. We prepare you for dates
SF women are perceptive, and they do their research. Before we start your search, we'll make sure you're putting your best foot forward. Depending on the client, this can include:
- Locking in the right outfits with our experienced image and styling pro Anya
- Capturing professional photos with our amazing SF photographer Allison
- Scrubbing your online presence (e.g. updating outdated social media profile photos)
- Helping you communicate about yourself on dates with light coaching from my teammate Tara
Our goals are to get feeling like your 100% authentic best self, and get you onto great dates that lead to the relationship you've been looking for.
4. We find Your Matches
How we find matches for our clients is pretty different from how most other matchmakers find matches.
Most other matchmakers try to make connections between their paying male and paying female clients. This isn't what the type of guys we work with are looking for.
We source every match for our clients by hand through:
- Our personal networks. My team and I have collectively lived in San Francisco for multiple decades. We know amazing women in the city, in Marin, in Palo Alto, you name it.
- Out and about. We meet amazing women for our clients eating at Blue Barn, shopping on Fillmore, and getting a sweat in at Barry's.
- Social media. One benefit of having large followings on Instagram and X is that smart, beautiful women actually respond to my DMs, including women who'd probably ignore other matchmakers.
5. you Have Fun On Dates
Any match we share with you has been vetted by our team, and is excited to meet you. We want to eliminate all the stress from connecting IRL for a date, so we'll help you send the right text, and even pick the perfect spot for dinner or drinks based on the vibe (e.g. skip dinner, and take her to Horsies in the Mission...)
All you have to do is show up, and have a good time getting to know someone special.
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